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Suck So Good ~ The Cocksucker's Guide to His Galaxy

Resident Madame Wendilynn

Resident Mistress Ruby

   Before I get into the juicy details I would like to lay a bit of groundwork down first. The most common reasons why women have trouble giving good head is because they have trouble breathing or they wind up gagging. Others simply just don't like to do it for some other reason. I am guessing the term blow-"job" sounded like too much work for these chicks! As an avid cocksucker I find myself wanting to do it most of the time I have sex. At some point along the way I realized sucking on a mans cock is my biggest turn-on. Now I think of it as another way I can literally blow his brains out and I am not ashamed to say that depending how much I'm into a guy I can suck some better then others. I can't say I always enjoyed giving head but I learned to do it really well and now I truely love doing it and it sure leaves one hell of an impression! I hope I can use my vast experience to pass along a few pointers to those women who would like enjoy doing it or to just improve their own technique.

    The way to think about it is this, all men are as different as we are and what works for one guy doesnt necessarily work for all. Proceed all the following techniques with caution. Ask them to show you how they masterbate. Do they tug at the base? the head? or all the way from base to tip? Is the topside or bottomside more sensitive?. Make the most of your cocksucking efforts to learn what pulls his trigger everytime. Most men will agree they want as much of their cock in your mouth as possible for as long as possible. They want to see you getting hot and sexy sucking their cock, they want to be touching and smelling your wet pussy while you pay special attention to their sensitive balls. Common sense will tell you to always avoid scraping him with your teeth, and go gentle by licking more than sucking when he is flaccid until he starts getting harder.

    Of course we all like to work with a clean specimen so make sure his cock, balls, perineal area and bum are freshly washed. If you suspect he is not, start with a nice hot shower for two or just go ahead and give him a sponge bath on the spot with a hot wet towel soapy on one end. Be sure to dry him off as well as the cool air will defeat the semi he will surely get from the hot soapy wash.

   A man's perineal area is is located between his balls and anus. It is the source of his ejaculate and is where the base of penis and prostate gland are located. Some guys are more sensitive to touch in this area, due to the size of their penis and prostate gland, but massaging this area is a good way to start loosening him up around his bum. If he gets a bit nervous just reassure him that if you had a prostrate you'd probably want it massaged all the time if it could give you a full body orgasm!

   Don't be afraid to encourage yourself with putting a yummy substance such as whipped cream or a flavored lube all over his cock and balls before getting started. (Be sure to grab a towel, also disposable underpads are great too)

   To help repress your urge to gag, be sure to breath in and out only thru your nose. Try to maintain a position where your neck is not in a bent or awkward position as to makes breathing more difficult. Try to take deeper breaths then you normally would so you will be able to hold it if he demands a "don't stop" moment while you have your mouth full of cock. Women with a sensitive gag reflex can try using the following exercise to control it. Lay across a bed with your head just off the edge so you can straighten your windpipe. Practice being able to touch and rub against the back of the roof of your mouth and tonsil area using a small item such as a dildo, popcicle, or lollipop. If you start to gag, wait a few minutes for the urge to pass and try to relax more and go slower. Find a pleasant thing or "happy place" to think about while you are doing this. (Maybe how happy your lover will be that you can deep throat his cock) Another last minute thing to try is to make an exaggerated smile really tightening the muscles around your jaw and under your chin, doing this will supress the gag reflex. Just be sure noone sees you with this crazy Joker face.

   Eye contact is a huge turn on and is essential when it comes to giving him the ultimate blowjob. Hold his gaze as you kneel down in front of him, run your hands up his thighs and when you are eye level with his cock, speak real low and sexy blowing your hot breath down upon his penis and his balls. Tell him how wet your pussy is getting just looking at how hard his cock is, and how you can't wait to wrap your lips around it and taste his pre-cum glistening at the tip. Watching as your looking up at him and feeling your words practically resonate from within his ball-sack will really add to his fire. It will also give you a thrill to see his utter appreciation just before his eyes roll back in his head as you touch that throbbing knob with the tip of your tongue.

   Start working your tongue in a circular motion around the head of his cock as if it were an ice cream cone, making sure to maintain eye-contact as you playfully slap your lips with his dick inbetween tongue lashings. Upon feeling his thighs tense up and his cock really harden, then go ahead and tightly pucker your lips as if to kiss the tip of his penis but instead push the head of his cock into your mouth almost forcing it between your lips - this creates a sensation of penetrating a hot wet tight hole. (Exactly what he tries to create with his hand when he jerks off.) Use your tongue on the inside to push back against the head of the cock resistantly - you want to make him "work his way in". As he works to get more and more of his shaft in your mouth your tongue should come up against the underside of his shaft. Depending on the size of his member you may be able to roll your tongue, flick your tongue back and forth or maybe just apply light pressure upwards and perhaps try to moan a bit (think vibration not sound).

   Use deep slow strokes and progressively add a bit more suction, try to keep your mouth as wet as possible. (drooling on him is OK and often encouraged) Practice going as far down on his cock as you can but instead of coming back up just push down a bit as if you are trying to actually force him in further. (He may try to hold your head down in this position - remember your "happy place" and breathe deep!). Carefully reach down and cup his balls in the palm of your hand gently roll them inbetween your fingertips while pulling slightly downward. Tickle that delicate patch of skin behind his balls up to his anus. Use your hand to grip him firmly around the base of his cock and slide the skin back and forth against the direction of your blowjob. Meet your lips with your hand as you seem to pull him into your mouth.

   Get him really slippery wet so you can swiftly transition replacing your mouth with your hand. Take a break from sucking his cock long enough to go down and gently suck each of his balls into your mouth, just one at a time or both at once if he has a smaller scrotum. Reach up underneath his balls and press the knuckles of your first two fingers into his perineum (the area between his balls and anus.) You will feel what is actually the base of his cock push back against you and doing this will make him feel harder if not ready to ejaculate. Then purse your lips back together and work him in again, keeping your lips tight and while you create suction keep your tongue pressing against the bottom side of his shaft. One hand squeezing the base of his cock and the other pressing under his balls with your knuckles. Congratulations! If he last's much longer beyond this time he deserves another reward so climb on top!

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