Fuck Him First ~ A Step-by-Step Advice For His First Anal Experience

Resident Mistress Ruby

Resident Hairy Bear Frank

FUCK HIM FIRST

Anal sex is enjoyable because of the rich network of nerve endings in the anus. While people often experience pain when first attempting anal sex, as you learn to relax and accept a cock in your hole , the pain soon changes to immense pleasure. For men, anal sex also offers stimulation to the prostate, an organ that provides the rush of pleasure during orgasm.

Whether you are a man planning on fucking another man for the first time or a female using a strap-on with your man. He should always insert his own clean fingers first during masturbation.

SAFETY IS ALWAYS FIRST!

-Anal sex without a condom is an extremely high risk activity for HIV transmission. If you choose to have anal sex, extra strong condoms and water based lube should be used every time.

-Fucking without a condom and pulling out before you cum is also extremely unsafe as both semen and pre-cum can carry HIV and the virus can easily enter the bloodstream through the membranes lining the anal canal.

-You should only fuck when you have a strong erection. If your cock is not very erect it may cause the condom to slip. When you are fucking check regularily to see the condom is in place.

It's a good idea for him to have a bowel movement several hours before anal sex (if possible). At the very least, make sure to clean his anus thoroughly with hot, soapy water or anti-bacterial wipe before any fucking takes place. You can even use a finger to massage soapy water slightly inside the rim of the anus. This will feel good also help to relax the outer muscles of the sphincter. An anal enema is essentialy a surge of water into the anus that looses residual matter and flushes the area. You may find anal enemas sexually stimulating. If you enjoy it, or can at least handle it, they're a good idea to reduce residual matter. Allow at least 2 hours before anal sex for the anal enema to have full effect. It's not good to perform frequent anal enemas as this can put undo stress on your arse. Enemas do NOT eliminate ALL bacteria and germs from the anus.

To prepare him for penetration, the first thing to do is to make sure he is relaxed. This may include a hot bath beforehand, an erotic massage or even just a good workout. The sphincter muscles around the anus will not allow things to pass through easily unless you relax and take it slow.

A ton of lubrication is necessary because the rectal wall is very thin an can be quite dry and very subject to tearing and lesions if not kept well lubricated. Use plenty of water soluble lubrication. The more lube you use, the more comfortable he will be.

Extra tough durable condoms are another necessity. Enemas, douches and other cleaners will not be able to get all the germs and bacteria out of the rectum. Not only is anal sex facilitate the transmission of STDs better than any other form of sex, it can also cause urinary tract infections and other bacterial diseases.

Insert a well lubed finger gently into his sphincter, and slowly massage it and the rectum. The middle finger is best being long and strong. The outside can be caressed in circles and mild probes. You can trace warm wet rings around the outside of his asshole. As you insert your finger do so by pressing gently and firmly inwards, wobbling the tip of your finger a little as necessary.

While you’re exploring his glory hole tell him to push out, like he was trying to take a shit, this will intensify the feeling. Once inside feel the thick, strong, muscular ring which is the anus and beyond it the soft sides of the rectum. Keep your fingertip beyond the anus, or contraction of the muscle will cause the finger to pop out. Once your finger is inside you can explore around, pushing it in as far as it will go, curling it around the anus, flicking it back and forth. Don't wear any jewelry on your hands, and cut your fingernails if you are going to put your finger in someone's manhole.

Rimming is another way to explore his hole. It involves licking, tonguing, and sucking the anus. You can lick across the anus in soft, wet strokes, or encircle it, going round and around softy and slowly. Rimming should always be accomplished by a latex barrier. Of course, in a monogamous relationship with two healthy people, the risk of disease transmitted anally is reduced.

As you start to push your cock past the anus, into the rectum, aim down for his belly button. After a few inches, you'll hit the curve. Pull back a little. Let you partner know that you aren't going to move, and DON'T move. A fraction of an inch feels like a foot when it's YOUR ass. When your partner signals he is ready to go deeper, move your aim upwards and start to pump very slowly and gently.

Then you need to try ALL these different positions:

Spoons is a good starting position. Each partner lays on their side, one behind the other. This helps prevent the penetrating partner from going too fast, and allows complete control over penetration. It also brings you closer to your partner so you can judge their reaction to what you’re doing.

Missionary position has the receiving partner lay on their back while the penetrating partner approaches from on top. The penetrating partner lifts up the calves or shins of the receiver, exposing the anus. This can be an especially intimate position, with both partners facing each other. The ‘top’ partner can masturbate the other and is open to massage and cuddling as well.

‘Doggie style’ is the one position most people associate with anal sex. However, rear entry allows a penis or anal toy to penetrate most deeply, and may not be the best choice for the beginner. This position allows the deepest penetration and permits the receiver to better open the anus for entry. Rear entry doesn’t offer the kind of intimacy or ease of communication that the other positions do, but can offer the greatest amount of thrusting and penetration.

Flying Doggie. A variation of the popular doggie style position in which the giver stands behind the receiver (instead of kneeling) and places their feet outside the legs of the receiver. The receiver will keep their legs closer together. Take care to start slowly, as the different angle of approach will stimulate different areas of the anus.

Wheel Barrow Position, the giver approaches the receiver from behind, similar to doggie stye, but lifts the receiver's legs into the air. The receiver must support themselves with their arms only or lay flat on a bed or chair. The giver holds the receiver's legs on either side, as though lifting a wheel barrel. But be careful, this position gives the giver an incredible amount of power to go deep!

Full front has the reciever lie on his back, drawing his knees up to his chest and over the shoulders of the giver. You can place a pillow under the pelvis to raise it even higher.

Bending over stand up, facing the same way, and the reciever bends over at the waist, using a wall, table, or other support. This can also be done on the knees, rather than the feet, at the edge of the bed. When both partners are not of the same height at the waist, some adjustment will have to be made. This position is convenient to use outdoors. It allows easy penetration and full movement if there is something solid around to hang onto.

Stomach position has the receiver lie flat on his stomach. Penetration using this method is not as easy and you are not able to thrust as deeply.

Above position has both partners roll over on their sides, still facing the same way, with one leg drawn up. This position allows bodily relaxation plus free hands to explore and caress. Entry is easy and fairly deep with this position. Movement is somewhat limited, though vigorous thrusting is still easy once you get used to the posture.

Straddle position is great because it allows the receiver to control the speed and depth of penetration. Have the giver lay flat on his back on the bed, the reciever then straddles him and slides his ass back to meet his hard penis. Penetration is easy in this position and entry can be deep. His hands are free to caress his partner or even slide down to massage his cock. If you're the receiver, make sure to slowly lower yourself down, as too quick a drop can be very painful.

Anal Kama Sutra position, the giver should be flat on their back, with the receiver on top facing the feet of the giver (imagine doggie style with the giver laying down). The receiver should lean as far toward the feet as possible, then commence pumping. This angle tends to maximize anal pleasure while delaying orgasm for the giver.

Reverse position, now that you've given him a right good ride. Now it's your turn. So come on, bend over, bitch. You will learn the most about fucking by taking it up your own ass. MMMMMMMMMMMMM