Help Her Acheive The Ultimate O
A Lover's Guide to Eating Pussy
Resident Mistress Ruby

As a lover of the Art of Oral Pleasure, I get turned on both giving and receiving. For the most part I find that most people actually do not know how to give proper head, and what they do most of the time is just fake it until the woman asks them to stop. So as a lover who has both received and given my share of cunninglingus to and from a number of other women, I figure I am in good authority to provide advice on what really works, so here it is from my own lips to yours...

Before I get started - Ladies! There are some hygiene issues I need to address before 'muff'-diving into things. Make sure your pussy and asshole are thoroughly cleaned and smelling spiffy. Feminine Hygiene Products are available for this very reason - don't be afraid to use them. A quick wash up before sex with some hot water, soap and a washcloth will help to remove any residue from sprays or powders. Even if freshly showered, it will help to remove any little pieces of lint or other picked up along the way. If you are out-and-about, pre-moistened wipes will do the trick.

Also, be sure to trim down or shave your pubic hair especially in the areas surrounding your clit and vaginal opening. Even a lover who likes a little hair down there, still doesn't want to floss with your pubes during foreplay.

Pussy-eaters, let me just thank you all in advance for providing so much pleasure and giving it your all! ALWAYS remember to wash your hands and keep fingernails clean and neatly trimmed. Fingering is often part of cunninglingus, and nobody appreciates a dirty finger. Not only is it unsanitary, but can lead to a UTI (urinary tract infection). Also, no chapped hands, lips or sharp whiskers. Nothing is worse than something that feels like a cheese-grater against that soft silky puss.

Make sure she is well lubricated - (not just her hole!) either by real means or borrowed. Use something tasty and non-chemical, and you're both ready for some clit-licking action, achieve a good position. I have always enjoyed the traditional head between thighs position. However a sideways 69 style - this is with both of you on your sides facing each other in opposite directions. This makes mutually giving head very easy, but also avoids someone being smothered during passion. Love swings and liberator furniture can often help us find fun new comfortable positions.

Check to be sure your own lips and tongue are moist and ready for some action. Wet your fingertips with a bit of saliva or lube then rub and massage the outside of her pussy lips moistening then up and getting her ready for some more direct stimulation. Go ahead and spread open her labia or outer lips of her pussy, use a free finger to slowly rub up and down the hood of her clitoris. You will know she's excited and ready if she's already wet and juicy with pre-cum. She should taste a bit like salty butter however sometimes women who smoke have a more bitter taste. If you don't get into the taste or smell do not be discouraged just be sure to grab something tasty to use as a barrier such as a flavored lube or sugarless lollipop - or popcycle (sugar creates yeast infections). If you want to be more discrete use a small altoid or tic tac mint, hard candy or even gum in your own mouth.

Continue using fingers to spread her pussy lips apart, but now it's time to use your tongue. With the flat of your tongue, lick slowly up and down each of her lips, and then back again, to end on her clitoris. Her clit should be getting harder as you continue. A woman's clit works just like a mans cock, the harder it gets, the closer they are to cumming. As her clit is getting harder, don't forget to continue fondling and caressing her thighs and stomach up to her breasts. Your intermediate attention to the rest of her is just furthers excitement.

One reason oral feels so good is your tongue can do a lot more to her clitoris than to just run up and down it. I personally love the sucking technique performed around my clit while being fucked with a dildo. At any time during oral, a dildo, bullet, or vibrator inserted in the opening of my vagina can stimulate a G-spot orgasm simultaneously with the clitoral orgasm. That will really drive her crazy if she hasn't experienced it before. That sucking technique is done by using your lips to encircle her clitoris and gently sucking it in and out while rubbing what is inside your mouth with your tongue. You can vary the speed and suction to suit her reaction, her breathing moans and grinding will be a good indicator as to your performance.

Please be aware that performing this act may result in an orgasm so intense that her legs may tend to shut tightly so watch out! (trust me - we cannot help it.)

A few other techniques to try is the Butterfly Technique. Again spread back the labia and gently flick the tip of your tongue back and forth over her clitoris. Pausing slightly to blow a little down on it as a tease. The following tongue massage will also get you points. Press your tongue flat along the ridge of the clitoral hood and make a slight rolling motion up and down, letting the texture of the tongues surface grip against her clit.

When she's super excited you may find that she will want to fuck your face and can be further enticed when you penetrate her with your stiffened tongue while massaging her clit with your nose - be sure to use your breath wisely as she may not want you pulling away at that climatic moment. As each woman is different, variations need to be made to either the amount of direct stimulation she can handle or the amount of fingering she prefers. I know women who prefer their ass played with during oral and achieve an anal as well as clitoral orgasm.

Just don't be afraid to ask her how she likes it done because if she is telling you -"its okay, you don't have to do that"- it REALLY means that you didn’t have the patience to find out what really works for her. Some women need more time then others, some need to have a little massage and candlelight or the dishes washed first. Find what combination she needs to achieve pure bliss.

Every single women has masturbated since we learned we could, and we all can bring ourselves to climax, many of us multiple times in at least three different ways. We can certainly teach you a thing or two about pleasing our pussies.